Becoming a wife and mother has completely transformed my life and shaped my identity in ways I never imagined. The love, joy, and fulfillment that accompany these roles. Amidst the beauty and immense responsibilities, I find myself yearning for the person I used to be—a sense of loss and emptiness. I've come to realize that rediscovering myself is a necessary and empowering journey. It's not about abandoning my current roles but about honouring who I am at my core. Nurturing my mental health and embracing self-discovery allow me to be the best version of myself for my family and, most importantly, for me.

I am here to set an example to my girls, that we need to embrace imperfections and remove the word “PERFECT.” I need to continue to love myself, and model that love to my girls. We only have 1 life to live, and we should be fulfilling our life with things that truly matter in life.

Women already have a hard time being valued, respected and treated, don’t add more fuel to the fire, by wearing something that gives others the opportunity to devalue who you are. We live in the twenty-first century, its time to stop blaming media for everything, men for “gawking,” and embrace modesty.